Frustration with women.

Hello my friend,

I know you’re angered by the stories you read online that reveal the darker and perplexing aspects of female nature. You grew up being taught that women are soft, delicate beings worthy of your care and respect, yet what you see with your own eyes disrupts this picture.

Red Pill content has opened your eyes to the complexities of female nature, but it has left you feeling more bewildered than empowered.

The “bad boy” tactics seem to work on women, but to you, they feel manipulative and inauthentic. “I don’t want to pretend to be someone I’m not.”

You see Chad achieving great success with women, while you get friend-zoned for being “too nice”. It breeds resentment. Why bother playing a losing game?

To this, my friend, I would say: you’ve begun the journey of understanding women, but you’re stuck halfway.

The Red Pill is an eye-opener for many men, who often discover it after a particularly painful breakup or divorce. I stumbled upon it during my research on mating habits, drawing from sources that ranged from books on evolutionary psychology to random YouTube channels. (Golden nuggets of wisdom can be found in the most unlikely places.)

And while I found some value in the Red Pill, I noticed it also produced a secondary effect in me—a seething, festering distaste for women. (My gender!). My boyfriend quit consuming Red Pill content long before I came to this realization. In his words, he felt “angry” after listening to Red Pill podcasts.

I’ll dedicate a separate post to the benefits and pitfalls of the Red Pill, but for now, suffice it to say: Red Pill should serve as a stepping stone toward deeper insights. Think of it as light dumbbells before you move on to the heavy lifting. Don’t get stuck there.

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I’m deeply intrigued by male psychology, and I found that it’s not too different from female psychology; both fall under human psychology. Each sex has goals, and we pursue these goals in the most cost-effective way available. On the outside, we appear distinct, but on the inside, we are more alike than we are different. We want what we want, and we want to incur the least cost to obtain it. Simple.

Female nature—or male nature, for that matter—can often frustrate the opposite sex. It does so because we resort to blame instead of understanding. The focus is often on the “unfair” and “wrong” rather than exploring the “why” and “how come.”

Personally, I believe this approach is an emotional drain with no real benefits. It’s like getting upset at the rain because it’s wet.

There is, however, another approach: accepting it for what it is. When you accept that dark female nature is part of human nature, you stop fighting an imaginary battle and redirect your energy and mental resources to more productive endeavours—like understanding how you can use this information to your benefit.

Acceptance is not the same as approval; you don’t have to like it. You simply recognize that people often behave according to biological patterns that often lie beneath the threshold of their conscious awareness. Most people are not driven by malice; they simply don’t pay too much thought to their ‘why’.

Men who understand and accept female nature gain a significant advantage in the dating marketplace. Why? Because where there is acceptance, there is no anger. They are no longer reactive to their anger—they are proactive and prepared. They bring an umbrella instead of complaining about the rain.

Understanding female nature is like mastering a game. You learn the rules, then take steps and make moves that lead to victory. You will inevitably stumble along the way (no game is without setbacks), but you ultimately get what you want, with the women that you desire. And to me, that sounds like a pretty good outcome.

Love,

Elina