Doing your best will not be enough.

Have you heard the story about the man who wanted to test which of three women would make the best wife? He gave each one $5,000 and observed how they used it.

1. The first woman spent all the money on new clothes and a spa treatment. She said she did this to look her best for him because she wanted to make him happy.

2. The second woman bought him a new car, saying she wanted to show how much she loved him.

3. The third woman doubled the money in the stock market and returned the original amount to him. She wanted to prove she would be a good partner in building their future.

The man thought long and hard about each woman's approach.
In the end, he married the one with the biggest breasts.

It’s a humorous story, but there’s always a kernel of truth behind the laughter:

People are attracted to what they are attracted to. Attraction is often politically incorrect, irrational, shallow, superficial, and unfair.

Getting angry about this, or wishing it were different, won’t make any difference whatsoever.

The same applies if we reverse the genders.

You could be a guy who possesses every virtue on the planet, but if a girl doesn’t find you attractive, your efforts will never be enough.

Forget about learning her love language; your prerogative must be to invest in becoming the most attractive version of yourself.

(Good news: unlike big breasts, most things can be either learned or earned.)

• Get fit

• Dress well

• Learn basic body language skills

• Practice speaking to women

• Work on your life mission

When you’ve got these down, women will respond more favorably to your invitations of courtship.

Without these, you'll be blue in the face trying.

Remember:

If she is attracted to you, you won't have to do anything.

If she isn't attracted to you, there is nothing you can do.

Love,

Elina