(Pic for attention : Me pointing at a gapped chicken in Thailand)

All men pay for women.

At one extreme, a man pays $200 to spend a night with a hooker.

At the other, he pays with dinners and flowers to keep a relationship.

Paying isn’t optional; it’s essential.

It’s the oil that keeps the engine running.

Most men, in my experience, are happy to pay.

The issue arises when some men pay and get compensated fairly... While others pay and get taken advantage of.

Disclaimer: The guy paying for a hooker is the guy compensated fairly. After all, you get what you pay for. In romantic relationships, terms and conditions aren’t as clearly defined. Men are paying for ‘love’, whatever that means. 

The goal isn´t to find a woman who wants nothing from you (that’s your mother).

The goal is to find a woman who values what you give her and rewards you generously.

This was a very long-winded way of saying:

‘’ Be with women that want to be with you’’

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